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Chicago, here we come!

Things continue to be eventful around here.
Or at least, I continue to travel from event to event!

After Eugene, the boys travelled to Missoula, Montana, where they rolled over everyone and came home the undefeated champs. And this trip, they stayed in a motel. And took the team bus. Much better, eh?

Then they went to Wenatchee and Kennewick, oh and Lewiston, too.

And Kate went to the Eastern Oregon University for four days for basketball camp.

Then she and some friends competed in the 3-on-3 tournament in Hermiston, OR.

Then the Bruins had a home double-header. They won both of those games, but missed going to districts by one game. Drat.

And now we are headed to Chicago! Whoo hoo! I'm ready for a vacation. Although, I'm not looking forward to driving for 6 hours tomorrow and getting up at 4 am to get to SeaTac for a 6 am flight.

I'm sure I'll have lots of pictures to share when we get back. I'm going to see Cathy, the city mouse, and hopefully her boys, and Pete from Ohio and his kiddos. Doesn't look like Cheri and Olivia can make it this time. :-(

Keep praying for Kristi. She has the most amazing positive attitude. And her mom, Dee...pray for her, too. Dee is such an incredible, supportive person. She's been there for me for years, and she's always there for her daughters and their kids. I pray every day for God to give her strength and peace and to show me some way to give back a little to her.

Love to you all. Shelley


  1. Michelle and family,

    Hi,I hope you all have a great time in Chicago!!

    Congratulations on all of your wins!! You have some great ball players!!

    Michelle'll never know how many people you and your family have touched with your strength, faith,hope,courage,honesty,and love!! You talk about how your Dave made people feel like they matter. I think he seen that same quality in you. You have a way of making people feel like they matter. I wish we could all be like that.

    Can't wait to hear about your trip!!

    Love and Hugs from Iowa,

  2. Have a WONDERFUL trip to the Windy City. Having just been there in April, I recommend the night time City Boat Tour. Loads of fun - and Chicago has one of the most beautiful skylines, IMHO.

    Enjoy it! Chicago is lucky to have the Meyers!

  3. Michelle
    Give Cathy a great big hug from all the people in Walla Walla that love her. Enjoy your time as a family away from the rush of activities. You touch so many lives Michelle; you give strength to those you never see or meet. You are a rock. The way you picked up your and Dave's family and lifted your head and continued on is a story of strength by itself. You are a true friend to all. My prayers are with Kristi and her mom and her whole family.

  4. The pier is Fantastic!
    You have a great time! ENJOY! Sherri

  5. Michelle, It was GREAT to see you in Chicago, in person! Spending time with Kenny, Zach, and Kate was so much fun. Thanks to your kids for being so patient with mine. We'll have to figure out a way to get us all together again, even though we are thousands of miles away! Peace.

    Pete from Ohio and kiddos!


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