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PET Scan

Wednesday, August 10, 2005 0:49 AM CDT

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PET scan will be Thursday afternoon at 1:15 pm. Dave has been very weak today, didn't get out of bed at all, except to go to the bathroom. No nausea and no headache, though, praise the Lord for that. He's been awake all day, but not talking very much, just nodding/shaking his head. And gesturing with his hand, but I can never figure out what he means.

He's such a sweet man, he kept waving to me tonight, and then tapping his chest. Finally I understood he wanted me to lay my head on his chest. So I did. And HE gave ME a backrub. I am most certainly the luckiest woman on the planet.

He's been talking more this evening, feeling good overall, just tired. Only one more day of the new chemo, then rest for a few weeks. Hopefully, not taking those HUGE pills will help.

He has a doc appt on Friday to see how the blood counts are doing on this new chemo.

Tonight Kenny told Dave how sad he was that he wouldn't be coaching or teaching this fall. He was really looking forward to playing football for his Dad, and being at the same school where Dad teaches. Dave said, "Don't worry, Kenny, I'll get back there." Pray for that, k? No energy to write more. Night all. S

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